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#1 bluspidr

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Posted 17 July 2011 - 09:17 AM

im always amazed that some people care if their ex is misserable and will even try to make them misserable. grow up and move on
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Posted 17 July 2011 - 02:24 PM

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Exactly. You cared about your ex for a reason, don't treat them like shit now.

I have a reason to hate my ex, yet still remain decent to her. She cheated on me 3 times before finally having the guts to end it. Then she jumped on my adopted brother, a few days after we broke up.(Biggest stab in the back ever), yet....She is still one of my best friends, and the fact that I loved her will never change, no mater what she did to me.
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Posted 17 July 2011 - 06:24 PM

I've always wondered about that mentality...I mean, this is someone you've probably spent lots of great time with...just because you broke up, do you really need to go out of your way to make them feel worse?

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Posted 17 July 2011 - 06:53 PM

I've never had this problem lol. Most of my ex's are cool.
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Posted 17 July 2011 - 08:17 PM

oh its not me thats having the problem. i just facepalm when i see statuses on facebook like "the fact that your miserable makes me happy"

if you hate them, then stop caring about them, good or bad
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Posted 17 July 2011 - 08:22 PM

If I see anyone who posts stuff like that, I usually just hide all posts by them.
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Posted 17 July 2011 - 08:33 PM

I've never understood facebook drama at all. On topic though. I have a few EX's who have gone through a hard time and it made me smile just a bit. I'm not saying that it's right; just how I feel. I wouldn't be a jerk about it and post on the internet or tell anyone. That would start drama that I do not want to deal with. However, it doesn't change the fact that I feel, to some degree, happy that they are not having a picture perfect life. Also, I'm talking about small things, like they ran out of gas and was waiting for someone to pick them up for a hour, not that their mom died or something. That would be different.
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Posted 17 July 2011 - 09:47 PM

QUOTE (Esege Malan @ Jul 17 2011, 01:33 PM)
I've never understood facebook drama at all. On topic though. I have a few EX's who have gone through a hard time and it made me smile just a bit. I'm not saying that it's right; just how I feel. I wouldn't be a jerk about it and post on the internet or tell anyone. That would start drama that I do not want to deal with. However, it doesn't change the fact that I feel, to some degree, happy that they are not having a picture perfect life. Also, I'm talking about small things, like they ran out of gas and was waiting for someone to pick them up for a hour, not that their mom died or something. That would be different.


ya thats different and not in the wrong. but the people who go out of their way to try to "get back" at their ex???
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Posted 17 July 2011 - 11:50 PM

QUOTE (bluspidr @ Jul 17 2011, 03:47 PM)
QUOTE (Esege Malan @ Jul 17 2011, 01:33 PM)
I've never understood facebook drama at all. On topic though. I have a few EX's who have gone through a hard time and it made me smile just a bit. I'm not saying that it's right; just how I feel. I wouldn't be a jerk about it and post on the internet or tell anyone. That would start drama that I do not want to deal with. However, it doesn't change the fact that I feel, to some degree, happy that they are not having a picture perfect life. Also, I'm talking about small things, like they ran out of gas and was waiting for someone to pick them up for a hour, not that their mom died or something. That would be different.


ya thats different and not in the wrong. but the people who go out of their way to try to "get back" at their ex???

That I have never done and your right that at one point you enjoyed being around the person and it seems silly to try and get back at them. If you do that, you haven't moved on. Healing from a bad breakup starts with getting on with your life; not obsessing at getting back at them for whatever they did to you. Some people are just to weak to just move on like that.
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Posted 18 July 2011 - 12:55 AM

Unfortunatly, I have tried to get back at my ex a few times, but then realized how much of an ass I was making, and just proving that I wasn't the man she wanted. In the end, I chose to give being her friend a better try.

But still, as her friend, when things happen bad to her, I can still laugh, but for the sole purpose that I am her friend. Mind you, that again, these are small instances, and, as quoted by Esege Malan

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I would never condone laughing at the expense of life, I have to much respect for the dead "Here on death, all sins of past are forgiven"

No, were talking much smaller things, like....

A phone convo with my ex a few weeks ago:

Ex: Yeah, were doing alright. I'm finding he has more flaws than I though.

Me: Oh, yeah, Like being a pot head?

Ex: No...Well, sorta the same. He started smoking recently.

Me: Yuck. how are you holding up?

Ex: Well, I made a bet with him...I told him that if he could go 2 days without smoking, I would stop complaining about it....He didn't smoke for the next three days.

Me: Sorry, but that means you don't have a right to complain. You said that you wouldn't complain if he proved it.

Ex: I said I wouldn't complain to him!

I later found out that it wasn't as bad as she was making it out, he was smoking Cigars, and only as a enjoyment.
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Posted 18 July 2011 - 07:26 AM

QUOTE (Richter @ Jul 17 2011, 05:24 PM)
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Exactly. You cared about your ex for a reason, don't treat them like shit now.

I have a reason to hate my ex, yet still remain decent to her. She cheated on me 3 times before finally having the guts to end it. Then she jumped on my adopted brother, a few days after we broke up.(Biggest stab in the back ever), yet....She is still one of my best friends, and the fact that I loved her will never change, no mater what she did to me.


I don't think I've ever seen seen such a beta person. Jesus.

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Posted 18 July 2011 - 12:15 PM

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Posted 18 July 2011 - 02:40 PM

What's so bad about being called Jesus, if anything it would be a compliment. >.>
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Posted 18 July 2011 - 08:31 PM

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What's so bad about being called Jesus, if anything it would be a compliment. >.>


That's not a topic you should really get into, or want to for that matter. If you don't understand how his religious views are it's best to try and avoid things like that.


As for facebook drama I mostly ignore it, but if people want to start up crap with me I told everyone on my friends list that I would delete them. Plain and simple method to solving something they can't handle being left to themselves.
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Posted 18 July 2011 - 11:27 PM

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Posted 24 July 2011 - 04:06 AM

um wut

Anyways yeah I haven't been in this situation myself but there are some people that ****ed around just one to many times with me and just thinking of them makes me want to rip some heads.
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Posted 24 July 2011 - 07:34 AM

QUOTE (Prince Marph @ Jul 23 2011, 10:06 PM)
um wut

Anyways yeah I haven't been in this situation myself but there are some people that ****ed around just one to many times with me and just thinking of them makes me want to rip some heads.

Well yes, but people who you formerly cared for?
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Posted 25 July 2011 - 12:17 AM

Dunno about other people but I love my ex. We broke up because she had to move away and I didnt wanna hold her down. I am aware that there are some people that hate their ex but for me, that will never be the case. Like Anon said.


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Posted 25 July 2011 - 03:42 AM

QUOTE (kirant @ Jul 17 2011, 06:24 PM)
I've always wondered about that mentality...I mean, this is someone you've probably spent lots of great time with...just because you broke up, do you really need to go out of your way to make them feel worse?


Most of the time they do this, not because you're happy, but because they're as miserable as they want you to be.

(Not you, as in Kirant, but a hypothetical you, of course.)

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Posted 01 August 2011 - 08:24 PM

You would think most people would see the futility of making exes miserable. But alas, for the bitter SOB's. But having never been in a relationship before, guess I still don't get it, lol.




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